Essay on Spiritual Practice
Posted on May 8th, 2007
by
Pelle
Spiritual Practice – Personal Perspectives and Opinions From an Integral Worldspace
Shadow work
Any part of the psyche’s I-stream can be severed from our self-identity and be either repressed, projected, dissociated or in some other way hidden from ourselves. The cut-off parts are usually unconscious and hence referred to as Shadow. Normally we tend to think that Shadow is a bad thing and something that needs to be fixed ASAP. While it is definitely true in my book that Shadow work and reintegration of lost parts of the psyche are some of the most important spiritual practices there are, let us also remember that our ability to be able to form Shadow is a gift without which human societies wouldn’t be able to function.
Growing up, our life in general and our families (or lack thereof) in particular expose us to a series of mini-traumas and possibly bigger ones as well. The ability to form shadow in these situations is what keeps us sane and enables us to keep on growing cognitively, value-wise, in our sense of self, etc. As children we still don’t have the ability to change our life circumstances, nor do we know how to sublimate or use other more mature strategies to deal with life’s hardships. To a certain extent this can be true throughout people’s lives which makes the ability to form shadow an important and natural part of being human.
So how do we deal with shadow?... because deal with it we have to if we are serious about our spiritual practice. This is more true than ever within the Integral Worldspace where high levels of cognitive development make it easier to hide shadow and keep the facade of a functional individual to the outside world. It's also important to remember that the higher up the spiral we go the greater our ability to affect other people, and large amounts of unprocessed shadow will make us about as responsible as Darth Vader.
First let me say that I do not include psychosis and PTSD in the concept of Shadow, these are distinct disorders and need different approaches.
The method of choice for Shadow work as far as I'm concerned is psychotherapy, and has been for a long time now. The second person perspective that a trained therapist can bring to the table is invaluable, considering that our deepest projections and repressions are very hard to spot on our own. Furthermore a therapist can provide a cocoon of unconditional acceptance that eases the knots of anxiety that usually keep repressed/projected parts in place.
Some of the more common therapies include psychodynamics, cognitive-behavioral, Gestalt, dialectical behavioral therapy, transactional analysis, body psychotherapy, and many more.
Framework
How do we think about ourselves, our lives, Kosmos itself and where we are going? All of this is largely determined by the framework we consciously or not so consciously ascribe to. At integral levels of consciousness Ken Wilber and his AQAL framework is the best known and as far as I know most complete framework. Having some intimate knowledge of his latest model Wilber-5 is invaluable to any person with an integral cognition. It is of great value for quickly and effectively communicating with another person who knows of the framework, and it has great potential as a tool to bring different branches of science together. Once you “download” the AQAL framework to your mind it is there in the background for you to draw upon as needed.
However, AQAL is not the only framework around nor do I feel it’s enough to assist me on my path. Susanne Cook-Greuter for example has some vivid, alive and yet scientific descriptions of Ego Development that add some much needed meat to the dry bones of AQAL levels. Robert Augustus Masters, a k a RAM, is an Integral Therapist who in his texts repeatedly displays a grounded Integral consciousness while remaining fluid in thought, body and spirit. To me it is apparent that there is deep value in freely expressing interior Integral worldspaces without automatically being restricted by AQAL, Spiral Dynamics or any other rigid framework.
To be effective in one’s daily life I believe in having a framework that is not strictly related to different stages of consciousness. One such framework is NLP. One of its simplest techniques is focusing on what you want versus focusing on what you don't want, and this is a key concept for everyone wanting to be effective. Human creativity is linked to the images, thoughts and feelings we carry around; so intentionally focusing on what we want will automatically give us a stream of ideas on how to achieve it. This also connects to the importance of Shadow work, since we will naturally focus on positive goals/dreams instead of negative fears as the death grip of the Shadow subsides. Whether strong human intentions can sometimes translate into non-local communication between humans, and thereby also aid us in pursuing our highest purpose, is a controversial topic in the Integral movement and I will therefore let it rest for now. At the end of the day it doesn’t even matter since a clear focus and strong intentions are still needed to put your brain and creativity to work for you.
Other interesting NLP concepts are Presuppositions (here and here), Representational Systems (a type model), Meta Programs and Reframing.
An UR practice??
This is the 21st century and there is technology available to us nowadays that simply didn't exist when most of the great traditions were formed. These great traditions certainly still have their place, but it would be naive to think that they are the only option or necessarily the best one for every individual in every circumstance.
A core component of my own spiritual practice for the past five years has been an hour daily “meditation” with Holosync. This is a technology that uses binaural beats to take the brain electrical state from high alpha brainwaves all the way down to deep delta or even sub-delta brainwaves. When hooking up traditional meditators to an EEG machine you will find that most people meditate in the alpha or high theta range, and only the most experienced with decades of experience will reach the delta frequencies. The unique feature of Holosync compared to other binaural beat CD's is that it employs a progressive lowering of the carrier frequencies to enable a gradually deeper entrainment of the brain, level by level in the program. Explaining the technology in detail is beyond the scope of this text, but if you are an IN member you can check out the dialogues with Bill Harris and Ken.
Nearly 300 000 people around the world use Holosync, and the almost universal results reported are a healing of past traumas, accelerated cognitive development and over time an increased tendency to rest in Witness awareness throughout the day. The theory behind these results is that the stimulus of Holosync ("involuntarily" putting people in deep meditative states) pushes brain neurons to make new connections, or as the founder Bill Harris would put it “the brain reorganizes at a higher level”.
In other words this is a pure UR method, but it can easily be combined with a regular meditation technique thereby combining UL and UR approaches in the same session. My only wish at this time is that Centerpointe, the company that sells the product, would conduct some systematized research on the large number of participants it has.
Body Practices
Our body is the only known vehicle available to us in the relative realm. In fact I shouldn't say body in singular, since we need to include all our bodies. In this text I will focus on our gross and subtle bodies, and leave the more advanced ones to those in the know ;)
My own core idea in this area of practice, and one that I find is often overlooked in the Integral movement, is that transcending the subtle body is not enough. We usually talk about the meditative state progression from gross, subtle, causal to non-dual. This is fine in itself, and is an important way to describe horizontal spiritual progression and state plateaus. However, transcending subtle does not mean that our subtle energy systems are healthy or integrated! Just like we know shadow work to be of immense importance for Ego Development and the gross realm in general, we need to heal and integrate our subtle energy systems as a foundation for further spiritual practice as well as to maintain health in the gross body.
My eclectic combination for working with subtle energies includes yoga asanas as a preparation. These stretch and expand the gross body and massage the internal organs. Nadis/meridians relax and become more open to the flow of energy. Then I do Qi Gong which is all about moving the energy about and clearing out blocks and stagnant parts. Finally Reiki healing almost effortlessly fills up the system with fresh subtle energies. I don’t always do them in that specific order, nor do I always do all of them in the same session, but I do feel they complement each other very nicely.
Something that has also been of tremendous value for me, amongst other benefits inducing a Kundalini awakening, is the remote healing and subtle energy reprogramming of the Regenetics method. The framework of this method has a lot of green and new agey components, but the energy work itself is incredibly sound and effective. Parts of the framework do ring true to me but I don’t recommend people sensitive to New Age lingo to go read about it :P
My own general experience is that there is a lot of interesting energy work going on within green spirituality, if you can look past the framework which is almost always subpar.
Another body practice (gross body) of great value is The Alexander Technique. This method truly aspires to prepare the body for the centaur stage. When practised repeatedly it reprograms the nervous system through hands-on techniques while simultaneously fostering a different way of using intention while moving. This can eventually lead to whole body integration and the feeling of moving with one body instead of a body of parts.
The Masculine and The Feminine
You can call them types, energies, polarities, modes of being or any number of terms. Throughout history man- and womankind have been fascinated with the eternal play between the masculine and the feminine. Integral is the the first level where we have access to a space wide and resilient enough to start investigating and integrating these two energies in a deeper way.
On a group level men clearly have a predominance of masculine energies and women of feminine ones, but there can be large variations individually. Important to remember is also that every individual possesses both, and therefore must make peace with each of them and somehow find a way to work with both in spiritual practice.
Besides making the distinction between the masculine and the feminine, I distinguish between the intellectual, the visceral and the spiritual. This leads to six different combinations: the intellectual masculine, the intellectual feminine, the visceral masculine, the visceral feminine, the spiritual masculine and the spiritual feminine.
The intellectual masculine means having the agency and guts to flesh out your own ideas as clearly as possible, and also daring to disagree with others if you don't feel that their ideas hold up to scrutiny. It all takes place in the world of concept and ideas, and the intellectual masculine is usually thriving on Integral forums such as the I-I pod and the Multiplex forums.
The intellectual feminine is less preoccupied with structures, framework and agentically challenging others’ ideas. Instead it wants to engage the intuitive and messy parts that it feels doesn’t get, and might never get, addressed by ever-expanding frameworks from the intellectual masculine. Instead of wanting to challenge other people's ideas, it simply wants to be heard and hear others sharing their ideas. Stream of consciousness writings, story telling and poetry belong to this category, but regular writing might just as well be used.
The visceral masculine is something more personal/interpersonal than the intellectual masculine. A core example is lovingly challenging someone else to grow, or challenging them to own something they appear to resist. This could be when somebody openly claims to have a certain shadow, but behaves in quite the opposite way - to take one obvious example. It can also be in the form of asking a tough penetrating question, and that of course has the advantage of letting the other person choose how deep he/she wants to go. Fatherly tough love also falls into the category of the visceral masculine.
The visceral feminine wants to unconditionally embrace people, in ever-expanding circles of love. This is complementary to the agentic outward force of tough love described above, which makes me think that every individual would do well to have an ounce of both however polarized we are.
The spiritual masculine is addressed rather often in the Integral movement. Key points include the striving for freedom and transcendence. In some ways it is a “clean” and ascending spirituality that leaves messiness behind.
The spiritual feminine is also increasingly addressed among integralites. Keywords to describe this would be messy, earthy, flesh, blood, etc. Engaging paradoxes and trusting intuition also belong here.
How many of these six perspectives do you regularly touch base with?
Steve Pavlina and VA Tech
This topic currently seems to be an endless source of controversy and debate, spawned by a blog entry from Steve Pavlina. Many people felt he was championing a dissociative approach and not accepting the suffering of samsara. I want to state my position on these questions briefly but clearly.
Pain cannot be escaped. Loss cannot be escaped. Emotions cannot be escaped. These are intrinsic parts of human beings in 3D reality.
However, our relationship to pain, loss and emotions can be modified in at least two general ways. First of all Ego Development as well as healthy translation can make us more complex and resilient as individuals. This leads to the ability to feel pain more fully in the moment and hence process it more quickly and more thoroughly. Secondly, horizontal spiritual development through meditation and other state training techniques lessens our exclusive identification with the gross realm. This does not make pain go away, but it can make suffering as a consequence of pain all but disappear.
New Age
This is another point of controversy and a pet peeve for lots of Integral debaters. I personally believe New Age to have both healthy and unhealthy green spirituality hidden inside of it. The healthy parts include love, hands-on healing, community, treating people well, reconnecting to spirituality after losing touch within the orange worldspace. Unhealthy parts include magical thinking, not wanting to look at one’s dark parts (Shadow!), not wanting to do any uncomfortable work at all, not being able to distinguish compassion from idiot compassion.
The healthy parts have their given place as partial truths within an Integral worldspace. The unhealthy parts need to be addressed by integralites, but lovingly as well as firmly, so as not to alienate those who are struggling to find a spiritual path in their life. Didn't we all use to be green at some point in our life? Can we find compassion for those we were and for our current internalized green selves? If we can, I think it will be much easier not to attack green but instead gently point out its inconsistencies and carefully explain to its followers how a more Integral approach could be of benefit.
peace and blessings
pelle
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Very nice and clear text Pelle,
About the Holosync thing, I never wanted to get interested 'cause I have enough meditation techniques to work on. But from your text it seems it is quite close to the EMDR method of Shapiro to treat PTSD: a sensory stimulus activate both side of the brain, and it is supposed to activate memories and undigested memories and resolve the Traumas. Isn't it close?
I also like the way you talk about New age. I'm really fed up with this which hunt that has started! As you say, some of their practices are good and some…well…they're weak.
With the distinction you made about masculine and feminine, I would suggest that New age is more on the feminin side as it is less preocupied by the rational framework. I know a lot of people are going to disagree with this, but hey…
I see new age as neither negative, nor positive, but as a heart practice (devotionnal) it seems powerfull, and as a cognitive or intellectual practice it is definitely weak.
Love to you,
Patrick
Hi Patrick,
Thanks for your comments. It is true that the same principle that EMDR utilizes is at work when using binaural beats and Holosync. Holosync however is much more powerful than EMDR and goes much deeper. But it is a very good observation of you, to see the baseline similarities.
I see new age as neither negative, nor positive, but as a heart practice (devotionnal) it seems powerfull, and as a cognitive or intellectual practice it is definitely weak.
This is an interesting way of framing it and I do believe that there is considerable truth to what you say.
peace and love
pelle
Thanks Pelle for your answer,
I will check this Holosync on the internet and see if I can experience it.
Keep up the work
Patrick
Hi there!
Liked your comments on integration techniques. Here's another (one im experienced in):
Integral Hypnotherapy
After doing a course with Dr Stephen Gilligan PHD in Ericksonian
hypnotherapy and psychotherapy I figured that there was an
integrally informed possibility for hypnosis available.
As a hypnotherapist, experienced in practicing both traditional
and Ericksonian (and Gilligan's) hypnotherapeutic approaches, I
offer the following perspective as distorted and filtered through
me, Adam Szmerling, for an integral approach for hypnotherapy, I
hope.
Traditional hypnotherapy, typically incorporates a hypnotist and
patient in a scenario in which suggestions are offered by the
therapist, in a trance state, for the sub-conscious mind of the
patient. These suggestions, are typically artificial in terms of
the existing worldview held by the patient; pre-written scripts
are sometimes used by therapists.
Unfortunately, some hypnotherapists today still favour a narrow
and traditional methodology of authoritarian hypnosis as taught by
most educational bodies which fail to be integral and end up
giving such a misunderstood tradition a staggeringly bad name..
Sometimes this approach is helpful. But the changes don't always
last. It's a bit like a new organ being rejected by the body -
something just doesn't fit. This approach certainly has its value,
sometimes, but it is definitely not integral.
Gilligan's approach, however, involves considerable
epistemological flexibility from the therapist, so much so that as
he or she enters into the existing worldview of the patient,
whereby the I and You boundary dissolves into a relational trance
connection of We. This entrance isn't like acting, or “being as
if”, rather, I'm referring to really embodying the experiential
awareness of the patient, thereby joining him or her for the
purpose of moving from a symptomatic trance to a therapeutic trance.
This is achieved in a few ways, one being the recognition from the
therapist that trance is naturalistic rather than artificial.
Another is that a persons socially constructed identities are not
who they are (the real self), or even the “whole ego” for that
matter. The latter understanding is crucial to avoid identifying
and fixating with the egoic identity structures that keep the
patient stuck in the first place.
This is, however, achieved by the therapist joining with the
patient in their model of the world, taking on his or her
worldview without judgement, and exploring a relational trance
together through a hypnotically tailored social ritual. Given the
epistemological flexibility of the therapist, there is no fear
necessary of getting “stuck, lost or taking on limiting states,
traits, or identities” permanently because by definition
epistemological flexibility involves pliability of who you are,
moment to moment.
In other words, this approach demands 2nd tier worldviews - it
demands multiple perspectives, multiple logical levels in language
and the ability to shift through multiple timeframes without being
attached to any one or fixated on an identity. - to use “Spiral
Dynamics” terms.
Taking on red meme values, blue, orange, green. Not a problem.
Neither is filtering language/suggestions during a relational
trance perfectly into the patients existing frame difficult. After
a connection is felt and trust develops, the therapist may propose
different perspectives, choice points or value structures for
consideration - how is this done? Usually through metaphor, story
telling isomorphically in connection to a patients problem.
Another effect of the relational trance is integration, or
wholeness, of previously dissociated “parts”, sub-personalities or
identity descriptions. A non-dualistic presupposition is
continuously proposed seamlessly with courage to experience
whatever arises and even be curious about its intention or purpose.
So, on the surface, relational trances can help to honour the
“skills” that a person is already using to dissociate… and at the
same time help them to use those same skills in different ways so
that they can come back into connection with the world.
On a deeper level, perhaps the isolated, dissociated parts
commence to find their home, welcomed back into a holistic unified
field of unlimited potentiality - as these notions are frequently
explored in detail during relational trances.
For example, a young man saw me for grief and loss issues. Part of
my approach, while in a relational trance of joining with him in
his worldview, was to offer multiple perspectives through a
metaphor of letting go in the story of another patient who found
it hard to sort out his baggage from what was really needed with
what was not, getting two boxes, spending time, deciding what
really belonged in which box. I told this same story from the
perspective of the patient, mine and a handful of other “key
people” in the patients life.
This is the opposite to “putting people in categories or boxes”.
This approach helps you out of the limiting categories that you
became stuck with in the first place.
From within this relational field, inter-subjectivity is explored
freely and safely. The various “I Am” identity descriptions as
held by the patient become held in a new, relational, flexible
space, in which multiple perspectives (Aperspectival) are offered
(not imposed) to the patient. - I am referring to therapist and
patient for purposes of language and communication although the
depth of the experience is beyond language. As Dr Gilligan points
out, hypnosis, like poetry, in one way to attempt to use language
to go beyond language. For this reason, trance is often very
helpful to achieve a deep connection with the felt sense behind
what is troubling … then, with a relational trance, one can apply
AQAL principles through inter-subjectivity, once such a space is
created.
People often report that even if their “problem” hasn't
disappeared, that it doesn't bother them as much anymore. After
all, the goal in an integral hypnotherapeutic approach isn't to
“remove” problem states but rather to create wholeness,
differentiation, integration - transcend and include!
Adam Szmerling is a Clinical Hypnotherapies and Psychotherapist
from the Bayside area in Melbourne, Australia. He can be contacted
on email hypnosis@iinet.net.au">hypnosis@iinet.net.au or Web
http://www.baysidetherapies.com.au/hypnotherapy-melbourne.html